Every day, we are presented with countless choices that shape the course of our lives. As human beings, we have been given the incredible gift of free will, granting us the ability to make conscious decisions and determine how we respond to the circumstances that come our way. Sometimes those choices are well thought out and calculated; other times they are a knee-jerk reaction driven by our emotions. During such times I am reminded of the power of choice and the importance of how I respond and interact with others.
When interacting with someone on a difficult topic where we disagree, I have two choices. I can choose to respond defensively by expressing my disagreement in a confrontational manner which usually escalates the situation, creates tension immediately, and hinders any potential for open communication. On the other hand, I can choose to respond with empathy and respect, constructively and calmly expressing my point of view, allowing a respectful exchange where everyone feels heard and valued.
I am human with a range of emotions and feelings that I must be mindful of in interactions with others. I have the choice and responsibility to respond to my emotions in a healthy and godly manner. In Ephesians 4:26-27 I am advised not to let anger control me but to deal with it in a way that aligns with God’s principles. I must understand that I have the power to choose how I perceive things and respond to others by having self-awareness and taking personal responsibility. In doing so, I can be more intentional with my responses and interactions.
By having an awareness of my behaviors this allows me to see others through a compassionate and empathetic lens. We are encouraged to love our neighbors as ourselves and to treat others with kindness and respect. By having this mindset it allows me to recognize that everyone has unique struggles and experiences and holds numerous benefits that positively impact both myself and those around me.
Assuming responsibility for my words and actions empowers me to express myself honestly and respectfully, allowing for open and honest conversations without angst. Consequently, I become more attuned to the needs and feelings of others, leading to deeper connections and stronger bonds. Fostering trust, respect, and love with others to create a positive and constructive interaction.
My choices touch every aspect of my life, including how I feel, see, and engage with others. While I am not responsible for how someone else feels, I must be mindful that my choices do impact others. We can do this the hard way or we can do this the easy way. Isn’t it funny how things seem so simple yet we make them so difficult?
Practice for today
Today I will be encouraged to cultivate a spirit of kindness and patience in my interactions with others. I will respond with self-control and seek understanding rather than with anger or a quick-tempered response. By doing so I will create peace, build healthy relationships, and demonstrate the love of Christ.
Proverbs 14:29 Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly.